Prudence in Dealing with Others*1Do not contend with the mighty, lest you fall into their power. 2Do not quarrel with the rich, lest they pay out the price of your downfall. For gold has unsettled many, and wealth perverts the character of princes.a 3Do not quarrel with loud-mouths, or heap wood upon their fire.* b 4Do not associate with the senseless, lest your ancestors be insulted. 5Do not reproach one who turns away from sin;c remember, we all are guilty.* 6Do not insult one who is old, for some of us will also grow old. 7Do not rejoice when someone dies; remember, we are all to be gathered in. 8Do not neglect the discourse of the wise,d but busy yourself with their proverbs; For in this way you will acquire the training to stand in the presence of princes. 9Do not reject the tradition of the elders which they have heard from their ancestors; For from it you will learn how to answer when the need arises. 10Do not kindle the coals of sinners, lest you be burned in their flaming fire. 11Do not give ground before scoundrels; it will set them in ambush against you.* 12Do not lend to one more powerful than yourself; or if you lend, count it as lost.e 13Do not give collateral beyond your means; consider any collateral a debt you must pay. 14Do not go to court against a judge, for the case will be settled in his favor. 15Do not travel with the ruthless lest they weigh you down with calamity; For they will only go their own way, and through their folly you will also perish. 16Do not defy the quick-tempered, or ride with them through the desert. For bloodshed is nothing to them; when there is no one to help, they will destroy you. 17Do not take counsel with simpletons, for they cannot keep a confidence. 18Before a stranger do nothing that should be kept secret, for you do not know what it will produce later on.* f 19Open your heart to no one, do not banish your happiness. Book IntroductionFootnotesScripture texts, prefaces, introductions, footnotes and cross references used in this work are taken from the New American Bible, revised edition © 2010, 1991, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Inc., Washington, DC All Rights Reserved. No part of this work may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the copyright owner. Home |